Monday, August 25, 2008

A day late and a dollar short...

Too true!!! :) Sorry for the late post. I thought that I would be able to update the blog last night, but Alex and I were sharing the computer so I didn't have a chance.

This week Ivy got her first black eye... she was twisting around on the potty, lost her balance and fell into the toilet paper holder. Who knew that potty training could cause a black eye! %)
Here's Ivy showing some of her tumbling skills (I guess she's learned from the KidFit program that they have at her school) she was playing on her climbing blocks and decided to go head first into a somersault! I was caught totally off guard! Then she just kept doing it again, and again!

We're still working on the toddler bed transition. Ivy does GREAT at night but naptime is still difficult (which is what I suspected, and is why we put her in the toddler bed at night initially). During "naptime" this week she has learned to clean out ALL the lower drawers in her dresser, transfer the entire contents of her bookshelf to her bed, and finally she moved her stool over, reached a little higher, and cleaned out the "catch-all" drawer including neosporin, earrings, q-tips, etc. This picture is the day after everything was locked up!

Ivy has also said a few sentences this week. The first sentence I heard her say was, "Papa, I got pee in potty." Later Aunt Shirley told me that she said, "I see Jack mow grass." Other than those couple of sentences, she been doing more possessives. "Momma's car. Papa's toy. Ivy's purse." That's great, but I'm wondering if she's getting it in Spanish, too, because the possessives are backwards in that language and I haven't heard her say anything to that effect. Still, it is very clear that she understands her papa in Spanish, so I guess I'll not worry about that now.

As for the rest of us, we are doing well. Alex has really jumped into the whole idea of becoming a runner. This weekend he ran 4 miles in less than an hour. We are both really impressed that he can run and keep his breath so easily. When we met 7 years ago he was a smoker who couldn't run a block without panting. I'm so grateful that God intervened and allowed him to quit overnight. What a miracle!

Another blessing I'm thankful for is my job. This year is my second year out of the classroom, but when school starts back, I remember what the first day jitters are all about, and how truly time consuming it is to prepare a classroom and all its trappings. It makes me wonder why the world is set up so that those who have the least amount of time are those who seemingly have the most to do. It also makes me wonder how anyone can be a classroom teacher and a wife and mother at the same time. I am in awe of my colleagues and their ability to take it all on gracefully and (more than) competently. Apart from less stress at the beginning of the year, I'm grateful for the challenges and opportunities for learning that come with my position. It's not unusual for me to feel like I've bitten off more than I can chew, or to feel totally inept to be facilitating my peers; but at the same time, I feel like I'm learning and growing...becoming a stronger leader, planner, researcher, philosopher, and educator because of the role that I'm in... And that's a really cool thing.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

bUSy

Wow! Have we been busy this week! I left before dawn Monday morning for an out-of-town training, and didn't return until after dinner Wednesday evening. Alex assures me that he and Ivy had a great time doing father-daughter things, but since I hardly talked to them and they took zero pictures while I was gone, I'll just have to take their word for it... well, their word and Ivy's sudden desire to sit on her Papa's lap, her running to him when he gets home from work, and her newly found words... "Hold you, Papa." I'm so glad that they enjoyed their time together.

Then Thursday I spent coordinating sneaky plans for our dear friend Brooke's surprise birthday party (again no pictures) and Friday was spent pulling off those sneaky plans, so the end of the week flew by! Ivy and I did manage to spend a little time outside riding in her car and having snack. In the midst of this fun, a very large, very ugly cricket hopped into our garage. Ivy is afraid of all quick things, but she was intrigued by this creature. She got far closer than I would've!

Ivy is still doing a wonderful job sleeping in her big girl bed, but we've had a few rocky nights (probably due to 4 teething errupting) and some SERIOUSLY long naps! On Saturday we missed a friend's first birthday party when Ivy slept for nearly 3 hours! Towards then end of that time I started putting clothes away and talking to her, but she just kept right on sleeping! Today she's learned that there's a little more freedom with her new bed... she came into our room to wake us up this morning (that's a first) and then when we put her in bed of a nap this afternoon she played until she was tired... the proof was in the closet where she'd gotten out my snowboots, the floor which she'd covered with books, and the bed where she had taken our first diaper bag and fell asleep sideways with her feet hanging off the edge!

Everyday is a discovery and everyday brings such joy!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

Effort...


This is my effort at getting back on track for our Sunday updates... alas, I have much to do this evening, and little time to do it all! So accept this brief account as our post for the week!

*Ivy is doing a wonderful job of sleeping in her big girl bed. She has not found herself on the couch again, and in fact, she doesn't even get out of the bed to get us when she wakes in the morning, instead, she just calls for us as she did when she was still in the crib!

*Alex, Ivy, and I have registered for the Susan G. Komen 5K. To sponsor us (please) visit our website at http://race.komenncfoothills.org/goto/alfaro
Wishing a happy week to you all....

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Growing Up!


When we returned from Texas, Ivy decided that she likes hairbows after all! What was to be a simple act of unpacking turned into a lesson in accessorizing (for me) as Ivy asked for "More, pease" after every hairbow I added!
After two "normal" nights, we moved the toddler bed (which has been in the extra bedroom covered with pillows) into Ivy's room and asked her to help us move her crib mattress and animals over. We talked about it being the "Big Girl Bed" because Ivy is just running out of wiggle room in her crib. After playing 'possum off and on all afternoon, she helped us move everything back into the crib for her last night in the baby bed.


Since naptime is more difficult for Ivy than bedtime, I decided to go against conventional wisdom and start her off in the toddler bed at night. Tuesday after her last nap in the crib, she again helped me move everything over to the toddler bed, but this time, we rearranged the room around the bed in it's new home. She seemed to understand what was happening... last night, after our regular bedtime routine, I laid her down at 7:20. She did her typical weak protest, but it lasted a little longer than usual. At 7:35 I went to check on her...and she was STILL in the BED!! I told her that I was SO proud of her for staying in her bed, and then I left again. By 7:44, the fussing had stopped and our angel was asleep. When we went to bed we opened her door and ours so that if she needed us in the night, she could get to us. Apparently she didn't need us at all... when my alarm went off at 6:35 this morning, I went to close her door only to find that she wasn't in her bed...

She had relocated to the couch... blanket, bunnies, and all!

Texas!


We are back from our trip to Texas, and we had a WONDERFUL time! Ivy spent the week watering flowers and the horse, gathering eggs, learning to tell Rascal the pup to get back, visiting Pawpaw at work at Wal-Mart, playing with her birthday buddy Marlie, blowing bubbles, splashing in the pool in Nanny's backyard, and loving life in general.















While we were in Texas I had a chance to catch up with friends and family I haven't seen in 5 years! It's amazing how some things change, and yet friendship...true friendship... stays the same. What a blessing to know these wacky, wonderful women who helped shape my life.


Saturday, before we headed back, we spent the day with my brother and his family. Ivy was glad to meet Grace... she took an instant liking to her! She also loves "Uncle"!
We were sad to leave, and glad to come home. We'll just keep a part of that drawl, that ease, that love, in our hearts....